A lot of people seldom ask themselves this question when they’re in a session, however the difference is huge.
It’s okay to disagree & struggle with the coaching, however it’s the way you disagree that can make the difference.
Are you working to see what the coach is saying, or are you dug into a position & refusing to look?
Another powerful “Core Confusion” is Stand vs. Rebellion.
One is fighting FOR something, while the other is fighting against something.
One is intimate, desperately working to be open hearted & struggling to learn something new …
… while the other is looking to hold strong to a position for fear of getting into something new & being vulnerable.
Knowing the difference between the two can be a fine line, but when carefully considered more closely, they are actually worlds apart. Learning the difference can instantly transform your life & relationships for the better.