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Killing our spirit

For the past 9 months or so, I’ve been sharing with those closest to me, how angry I am to watch peoples spirit being slowly eroded by the way this entire quarantine COVID-19 fiasco has been handled. I’ve been consistent since day one in saying that this virus is not...

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13 years

In my previous post, I shared about my love coming into my life several months ago ... but why did it take 13 years? “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek & find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” Rumi The above quote by...

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We found love in a hopeless place

It’s been 13 years since my last legitimate relationship & for the last 4 months, all that has changed & I couldn’t be happier. Her name is Lindsay & she came out of nowhere; meaning she came from a direction I wasn’t intending, looking in, manifestating or had...

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Lulled to sleep

When we’re terrified, we lose perception ... & that’s exactly what’s been happening to us over the last several months - a constant steady stream of fear, pumped through our television, making our perception, intuition & intelligence obsolete. Over time, that fear...

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Absurd

Def: Wildly unreasonable, illogical or inappropriate. A lot of people are asking, “when are things going to go back to normal”. First of all, we can never go back to where we were, we can only look to where we’re headed. We’re in a different world than when we first...

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Viruses are not our enemies

I can name 20-30 virus off the top of my head right now, that are alive & well, living amongst us to this day - & deadlier. But you don’t see most of us freaking the fuk out in the way that we are carrying on like with this COVID-19, why is that? It’s because of good...

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Naive Conspiracy theorist or Conscious

If this virus & all the associated hidden governmental agenda to spread fear in order to gain control over our behaviors has taught me one thing, it would be that a lot of these big institutions & governing bodies credibility is severely damaged; maybe even...

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Fear: The new pandemic

No, it doesn’t have a fancy name like COVID-19 or The Corona Virus, but don’t overlook fear as being anything less than insidiously lethal. Like weeds to a garden, fear slowly but surely covers more & more ground, systemically infecting every area of life, often...

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The Corona virus is here to stay

For one reason or another, the writing appears to be on the wall; Covid-19 is going nowhere & we’d better get used to it. Just like many other virus that still remain with us to this day, we’ve grown to accept them without question; we’ve also found a way to...

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Healing can be violent

From the beginning of this entire Corona virus fiasco, I’ve been writing & sharing my viewpoints & some inner feelings of the kinds of things I’ve been going through & working on. Part of that sharing has been this idea of how the virus & quarantine has been a...

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Spiritual bypassing

Anger is healthy & an integral part of healing ... never let anyone tell you otherwise. I’m not a member of AA, nor am I a practicing Buddhist, so take what I’m saying with a grain of salt. It’s often relayed to me by clients that some of these teachings tend to shame...

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Deep healing

To heal things deeply, you need to get into the darker, uncomfortable aspects of yourself, that people seldom want to look at, speak about & feel. Years ago, during some intense periods of deep healing in my life, I used to visualize this process as if I was an...

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The Razor’s Edge

Our lives are a byproduct of everything we say yes & no to. This is one of the bigger premise I consistently have on my mind. It keeps me accountable to the things I’m committed to creating & the kind of man I’m working on becoming. It “burns” or gnaws at me every...

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It’s not your fault

By definition, trauma on any level & under any circumstance is not your fault; otherwise, it wouldn’t be trauma. Regardless of how you feel you might have contributed to causing whatever happened to you, I want you to know that it wasn’t your fault, at, all. In order...

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Heartbreak Lake

This culture has been guilty of avoiding feelings of sadness, grief & heartbreak ... I don’t feel people find much value in them & they’re terrified to find out. These feelings have fallen down the list past the more popular ones of ambition, motivation, hard work &...

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Uncertainty

Having a relationship with uncertainty & not knowing is vital for personal growth & development. For me, it was a valuable lesson to learn to be able to say that I didn’t know the answer to something; it just didn’t dawn on me that I could say I didn’t know. It was...

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Big Difference

Don't be kind to people who are being a dick to you, be cordial - big difference. Always be appropriate to the specific situation. No thing, including kindness or loyalty, is always good or bad - always be appropriate to whatever the situation calls for.

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Surrender

One way that I’m personally surrendering, is with being more public, especially when it comes to doing things on camera & with video like the kind you see above. One reason why I’ve been hesitant is that it doesn’t represent the “magic” that my clients & I experience...

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Rising above it

Without going into details about the Corona virus & how I feel this thing has been mishandled, I’ll cut straight to the anger it brought up in me & how in order to rise above the bullshit that goes on in life, you can’t bypass the anger, you must go through it. . For...

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Thank you!

It was my 48th birthday yesterday & I feel fantastic. Soapbox: I fought like hell to feel this way & I always will. You’re not entitled to feel “good”; you have to earn it daily. It’s a mentality more than it is anything else. I believe people have to be taught how to...

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