When we’re terrified, we lose perception ... & that’s exactly what’s been happening to us over the last several months - a constant steady stream of fear, pumped through our television, making our perception, intuition & intelligence obsolete.

Over time, that fear becomes paralyzing. We continue to lose even more perception in what’s really going on & we start to follow what we’re being told & what others are doing…

Def: Wildly unreasonable, illogical or inappropriate.

A lot of people are asking, “when are things going to go back to normal”. First of all, we can never go back to where we were, we can only look to where we’re headed.

We’re in a different world than when we first began this fiasco.

I can name 20-30 virus off the top of my head right now, that are alive & well, living amongst us to this day - & deadlier. But you don’t see most of us freaking the fuk out in the way that we are carrying on like with this COVID-19, why is that?

It’s because of good marketing.Here’s my point: viruses are not our enemies. Actually they’re our allies that help us evolve & get stronger as people.

If this virus & all the associated hidden governmental agenda to spread fear in order to gain control over our behaviors has taught me one thing, it would be that a lot of these big institutions & governing bodies credibility is severely damaged; maybe even irreparable.

No, it doesn’t have a fancy name like COVID-19 or The Corona Virus, but don’t overlook fear as being anything less than insidiously lethal.

Like weeds to a garden, fear slowly but surely covers more & more ground, systemically infecting every area of life, often undetected until our condition has become critical. ⁣⁣

For one reason or another, the writing appears to be on the wall; Covid-19 is going nowhere & we’d better get used to it. Just like many other virus that still remain with us to this day, we’ve grown to accept them without question; we’ve also found a way to cohabitate & live with them, despite having to change our life styles in order to do it. ⁣⁣The rabbit-hole goes way too deep to delve into as to why it came about in the first place...

From the beginning of this entire Corona virus fiasco, I’ve been writing & sharing my viewpoints & some inner feelings of the kinds of things I’ve been going through & working on.

Part of that sharing has been this idea of how the virus & quarantine has been a contributing factor to some personal soul-searching & self examination.

Anger is healthy & an integral part of healing ... never let anyone tell you otherwise.

I’m not a member of AA, nor am I a practicing Buddhist, so take what I’m saying with a grain of salt. It’s often relayed to me by clients that some of these teachings tend to shame people for experiencing & expressing anger during their healing journey.

To heal things deeply, you need to get into the darker, uncomfortable aspects of yourself, that people seldom want to look at, speak about & feel.

Years ago, during some intense periods of deep healing in my life, I used to visualize this process as if I was an orange, where the rind, or bitter aspects of myself was being turned inside out for me to experience all those darker aspects.

Our lives are a byproduct of everything we say yes & no to.This is one of the bigger premise I consistently have on my mind.

It keeps me accountable to the things I’m committed to creating & the kind of man I’m working on becoming.

It “burns” or gnaws at me every time I do something that is contrary to my commitments. .

By definition, trauma on any level & under any circumstance is not your fault; otherwise, it wouldn’t be trauma.

Regardless of how you feel you might have contributed to causing whatever happened to you, I want you to know that it wasn’t your fault, at, all.

This culture has been guilty of avoiding feelings of sadness, grief & heartbreak ... I don’t feel people find much value in them & they’re terrified to find out.

These feelings have fallen down the list past the more popular ones of ambition, motivation, hard work & ... “out working everybody”; and I don’t think we’re better off for it - I actually think we might even be worse off, especially emotionally.

Having a relationship with uncertainty & not knowing is vital for personal growth & development. For me, it was a valuable lesson to learn to be able to say that I didn’t know the answer to something; it just didn’t dawn on me that I could say I didn’t know. It was clear that I had shame about it & felt the need to have an answer.

During these times of Corona, it’s brought up a lot of feelings of uncertainty with a lot of people & that’s totally understandable & healthy…

Don't be kind to people who are being a dick to you, be cordial - big difference.

Always be appropriate to the specific situation.

No thing, including kindness or loyalty, is always good or bad - always be appropriate to whatever the situation calls for.

One way that I’m personally surrendering, is with being more public, especially when it comes to doing things on camera & with video like the kind you see above.

One reason why I’ve been hesitant is that it doesn’t represent the “magic” that my clients & I experience when we’re together in session; I’m a harsh critic, that if it doesn’t have that same feeling, it ain’t worth putting out to have “the public” see & I’ll lose “credibility”.

Without going into details about the Corona virus & how I feel this thing has been mishandled, I’ll cut straight to the anger it brought up in me & how in order to rise above the bullshit that goes on in life, you can’t bypass the anger, you must go through it.

For some people, like myself, we are intimately connected to anger & our susceptibility to having a temper, so not allowing our anger to take over & rising above the bullshit is our challenge.

It was my 48th birthday yesterday & I feel fantastic.

Soapbox: I fought like hell to feel this way & I always will. You’re not entitled to feel “good”; you have to earn it daily. It’s a mentality more than it is anything else. I believe people have to be taught how to feel good & to learn how to live a good life; that’s certainly been true for me. There’s skills to learn & develop in order to navigate life gracefully.

Get ready for the integration period, they tend to be bumpy rides.

When your awareness is raised about something, it makes it easier to spot & navigate ... & this process navigating back to our regularly scheduled programming life is no different.

By now, everyone is emotionally soaked in something that has them sensitive for one reason or another…

An aspect I’m appreciating tracking during this quarantine time are some of our cultural issues that are surfacing. I’m not going to go into the specifics about the media, the government or the medical profession, but none of these facets of life I just mentioned, always, purely have our best interests at heart.

Shouldering the burden of responsibility for our own health & wellbeing, including that of our family is no easy task.

I’m turning 48 this Wednesday, May 13th & I am thinking deeply about the kind of guy that I am & the man I’m working on becoming.

For those who know me well, these times of contemplation are nothing new, however every once in awhile, it’s next level & this is one of those times.